1st seduce them with food

2nd get them drunk

3rd let them show off

4th pretend you are not that interested, hard to get

5th show a little sign that there is a chance

6^th kiss

7th make a little effort

8th say no

9th throw a party

10^th let them seduce you

11^th enjoy

12^th suffer from rejection because you have seduced a womanizer